Mending Broken Fences

How do we as humans mend fences broken ... fences demolished even!  I hope through communication this can be done.  The drama that has consumed too much of my time has become unbearable to me and my husband so tomorrow night I will be sitting with someone and trying to fix a few things.  This WILL NOT be an easy thing to do and emotions will run high as usual.  I pray that I keep my mind focused and my heart open.